tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8540881439451499604.post3578556063460114576..comments2023-11-03T05:36:52.309-07:00Comments on Positive Discipline: Listening Tool CardJane Nelsenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09163509440079037626noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8540881439451499604.post-27349984276273067652014-01-28T22:06:11.645-08:002014-01-28T22:06:11.645-08:00As an MFT intern, I have enjoyed the articles and ...As an MFT intern, I have enjoyed the articles and books as great resources for my clients! Thank you!Elizabethnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8540881439451499604.post-35063588309179195282012-01-07T20:59:37.112-08:002012-01-07T20:59:37.112-08:00I had a wonderful opportunity present itself this ...I had a wonderful opportunity present itself this week as I paid special attention to this tool... My daughter has recently been interrupt me quite a bit when I am trying to talk to her and her brother, and I tend to get real hot when she does this... So this week I found the time to share with her that I am working on noticing when I interrupt her, and instead allowing her to speak. I asked if she would do the same for me. As we continued to talk, she let me know that yes, she knew that it bugged me when she did that. I asked her if it made her feel powerful to know she could "bug" me like that and she gave a little smile before responding "yes." We shared a big hug with a promise of working on not interrupting each other and taking time to listen instead. :)Caseyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15099683369329147642noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8540881439451499604.post-9398695014174340262012-01-03T07:20:48.654-08:002012-01-03T07:20:48.654-08:00Jane,
I was always taught to be very careful when...Jane, <br />I was always taught to be very careful when questioning kids and that parents should just reflect feelings until their child feels like talking (or just let them to be until they are ready to talk later on. Saying things like, "You seem sad." "Looks like you had a rough time." "It seems like you can use a cup of cocoa and a listening ear." <br />I was told that "what happened?" can be misconstrued as an accusation. I am interested to know your feelings on that.Adina Soclofhttp://www.parentingsimply.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8540881439451499604.post-34990697956878836982011-12-31T09:36:45.533-08:002011-12-31T09:36:45.533-08:00Thank you for offering this tool and guidance to t...Thank you for offering this tool and guidance to the group - to me! I have followed PD and PD for Montessorians, both with my own children and with my preschoolers, and I'm very excited to participate in this project!Lisahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11632914508070949614noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8540881439451499604.post-29061119535892768722011-12-29T17:34:23.112-08:002011-12-29T17:34:23.112-08:00Jane Nelson's Positive Discipline is that abso...Jane Nelson's Positive Discipline is that absolute best parenting approach out there, and I speak from 40 years of experience in the field. I love how she teaches mutual respect - with begins with parents respecting their children AS they are, for WHO they are, and what STAGE they are at. Bless you, Jane!Felicityhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12977763086163381146noreply@blogger.com