tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8540881439451499604.post2023823436529214956..comments2023-11-03T05:36:52.309-07:00Comments on Positive Discipline: Kind and Firm ParentingJane Nelsenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09163509440079037626noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8540881439451499604.post-35364234343204468502015-01-12T13:44:22.243-08:002015-01-12T13:44:22.243-08:00Ok so when you have a previous agreement with your...Ok so when you have a previous agreement with your teen that includes self responsibility and then they dont keep it and act jerky and give you disrespect... What do u do.... Still validate and continue being loving and supportive... Cause its like u become a doormat....Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8540881439451499604.post-49001154673830928562014-09-04T06:43:52.307-07:002014-09-04T06:43:52.307-07:00"but" eradicates anything said before it..."but" eradicates anything said before it. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8540881439451499604.post-2943334715403712412014-09-03T19:26:44.027-07:002014-09-03T19:26:44.027-07:00@Anonymous - It might seem tempting to use "b...@Anonymous - It might seem tempting to use "but" because it's part of our everyday language, however yes, it does derail what you might be trying to say. "But" voids everything you said before it and doesn't allow your child to feel validated and heard. Stephanie Owenhttps://www.facebook.com/pages/Stephanie-Owen-Parenting-Coach/1464217213818294noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8540881439451499604.post-76748106589442273022013-07-16T12:06:15.068-07:002013-07-16T12:06:15.068-07:00This was so valuable to me! I copied it manually ...This was so valuable to me! I copied it manually into my notebook instead of printing it out so that I might retain it. mariawildflowerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17564128274167021782noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8540881439451499604.post-19541574277598203222013-07-16T11:36:55.285-07:002013-07-16T11:36:55.285-07:00Yes, I was curious about that too!Yes, I was curious about that too!mariawildflowerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17564128274167021782noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8540881439451499604.post-26432674327128732542012-08-30T13:24:09.590-07:002012-08-30T13:24:09.590-07:00It feels more natural to use the word "but&qu...It feels more natural to use the word "but" instead of "and" in all of those examples. Does that derail the whole thing, or does that work too?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com